Human female mate choice from an evolutionary perspective

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By A.A. Zavala

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Human female mate choice and selection has been topic of interest both in the scientific community and in popular culture. In popular culture there are books and websites giving women pointers on finding the ideal mate. There are shows on T.V. perpetuating stereotypes of what an ideal mate should look like, act like, and be like. But what are the core attributes that cause women to be attracted to certain males? What are the evolutionary mechanisms that cause one male to be more attractive than another? The subject of human female mate selection is vast and diverse, but there are some scientific studies that may shed some light on the topic.

Facial characteristics may be a factor in determining whether females select certain males over other males. Experiments conducted by Kruger (2006) sought to investigate this link. The author conducted three experiments to investigate women’s reactions to masculine and feminine male faces. One study geometrically manipulated the look of the males face and measured the ratings given to each face. The second study tested the mating trade off hypothesis that a “woman’s partner preference should be related to the length of the relationship and expectations for genetic and parental investments.” (p.455). The author hypothesized that if females choose males based on facial masculinity, then attributions based on personality and reproductive strategy would also be linked to facial masculinity. The final study had participant’s group behavioral tendencies, high mating effort/risk strategies and high parenting/risk adverse strategies between masculine or feminine faces. Kruger concluded that “Highly masculine faces are associated with riskier and more competitive behavioral strategies, higher mating effort, and lower parenting effort in comparison to less masculine faces.” (p.460). The author found that women tend to choose men with masculine faces for short term relationships, but favored men with feminine faces for long term relationships/marriage. One possible explanation for this conclusion is that men with masculine faces may have other attributes associated with masculinity. They may have higher testosterone levels, engage in risky behaviors (hunting, competition for mates, conduct war), and may not survive long enough to be considered for a long term relationship. Men with feminine faces may be seen as not engaging in these risky behaviors, therefore they may live a long time and be able to increase their parental investment in their offspring.

The way that women compare themselves to other women may influence the type of males they find attractive. A study conducted by Little and Mannion (2006) investigated the correlation between self attractiveness and preferences for male masculinity. The study measured and recorded the responses of 65 women from age 16-45. They were asked to rate the attractiveness of 40 women on a scale from 1-10 from an online database. Then the participants were asked to complete a questionnaire about self ratings and body attractiveness. During the final portion of the experiment women were shown 10 pairs of male faces, one masculine and one feminine, and were asked to select the most attractive face. The results indicated that women who viewed images of attractive women rated themselves lower on the self-report questionnaire and demonstrated a preference for men’s faces that were less masculine. However, women who viewed the pictures of unattractive women rated themselves higher on the self-report questionnaire and demonstrated a preference for more masculine faces. The researchers concluded that “If intrasexual competition for mates in females is based on such uncontrollable traits, we might expect them to have sophisticated mechanisms for estimating their relative worth within a population.” (p.985). The study indicates that women adjust their preferences in mate selection based on their own self perception and self esteem. Women who perceive themselves as attractive may be more confident and select masculine males as potential mates. These women may see their rewards in having offspring who are attractive, more capable of finding mates of their own in a competitive environment.

The effects of female control of resources may have an impact on the mates that women select. Research conducted by Moore, Cassidy, Smith and Perrett (2006) investigated the effects of the amount of resources women have and their mate preferences. The authors recruited 2788 heterosexual female participants’ age 18-35 years old to participate in the study. The participants answered a questionnaire asking about demographic information. They were also asked about the relationship they would prefer if they were looking for one on the day of testing. To measure control of resources, participants were asked to rank on a scale form 1-7 the importance of career, access to resources, financial independence, and how much input they have on decisions at home. And finally they were asked to rank 13 characteristics in order of importance in a potential partner for a long term relationship. The sample characteristics included good financial prospects, ambition and industriousness, favorable social status, and physical attractiveness. The results from the study showed that women who controlled their own resources would chose physically attractive mates and were more tolerant if they were younger than them. Their mate’s level of resources wasn’t a factor. Women who didn’t control their resources chose mates who had more financial resources and were older than they were. The findings suggest that women who control their own resources may not see the capability of their mates providing resources as important as the women who don’t control their own. Women who don’t have many resources may select their mate on the level of parental investment that they can provide for their offspring.

Do women choose mates based on the attractive female company they keep? Waynforth (2007) conducted a study to determine whether women perceived men to be more attractive when they were seen with a female date or friend. He also wanted to find out whether the physical attractiveness of the female consort affected the woman’s perception of males desirability. The author recruited 112 undergraduate women, ages 19-23, to view facial photographs of 46 men and 60 women. The images of the men and women were presented separately on a PowerPoint presentation with images cropped at the neck. The participants viewed the Power Point presentation and were asked to rank the attractiveness of the image on a scale from 1-10. Two weeks elapsed, and the images used in the presentation were reassigned into 112 female-male pairs. The participants were then asked to rerate the images of the males, this time presented with a female consort. The findings demonstrated that women are influenced by viewing men with physically attractive consorts. Specifically, a male “shown with a less attractive female consort caused women to downgrade the attractiveness ratings they had assigned to men when shown without a female consort.” (p.269). It wasn’t enough for the male to be seen with a female to be considered desirable, the female consort had to be attractive as well. The results also indicated that women with more sexual experience were less likely to be influenced by the presence of a female consort. Females may use mate copying as a heuristic, a means to quickly size up a potential mate. If the male’s female consort is attractive, then it is assumed that she may have done the legwork in determining his viability as a potential mate and judged him worthy to pass on his genes.

Sexual imprinting may be a factor in determining which characteristics women find attractive in their potential mates. The study conducted by Wiszewska, Pawlowski, and Boothroyd examined the link between facial proportions of the fathers and faces that females found attractive. In the experiment 49 women ages 15-34 participated in the study. The author’s selected 16 out of 31 facial photographs of men to be chosen as stimuli faces. The facial proportions of the participant’s father’s faces and the stimuli faces were entered into SPSS 12.0 in order to perform a principle component analysis. A questionnaire was given to the daughters to answer, with questions ranging from demographics, level of education to rating the relationship they had with their fathers. The women were then shown the stimuli faces and asked to rank them on attractiveness. The facial factors of the father were then correlated with the stimuli faces. The women who had positive relationships with their fathers rated faces that had similar facial proportions to their father as attractive. There were no significant correlations in the group who had a less positive relationship with their fathers. The authors discovered that “there was no overall concordance between father’s faces and the faces which females found attractive: however, women who rated their fathers most positively showed significantly stronger concordance between father’s and chosen faces . . . than women who rated theirs fathers least positively.” (p.251). Women who select future partners may base their decisions on the past of experience with their fathers. These women may associate positive attributions with these similarities because it may be a mechanism to help them determine their mate’s viability as a responsible parent.

In conclusion, the studies reviewed for this treatise seems to indicate that women attempt to develop methods on quickly assessing potential mates. This makes sense, since women have a limited amount of time in which they’re fertile. They also have the most parental investment since they have to carry their child within their bodies for 9 months, and have to care and rear their child for 18 years or longer. Women seem to look to the face in order to determine a mate’s potential viability. They also copy other attractive females in their choices for attractive mates. A woman’s past experience with their father may give them clues on which attributes they find attractive in a potential mate. Women may also select mates based on they way they perceive themselves. If they find themselves attractive as compared to other women, then they tend to find men who are masculine more attractive. If they feel less attractive than the women they see, then they find feminine looking men more attractive. Finally, a woman who controls their own resources will chose mates based primarily on attractiveness, since they don’t need to rely on their potential parental investment. Women who don’t control their resources, however, will chose a mate who’s older and has more resources in order to insure that they’re offspring will be taken care of.

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©2010 Augustine A. Zavala

Comments

Pachuca213 17 months ago

This was very interesting. I really enjoyed all the effort and research you put into this one.

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A.A. Zavala Hub Author 17 months ago

Pachuca,thank you for the comment. I really enjoyed the topic and writing this paper. Plus I got an "A", really happy about that. Thanks again for visiting.

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LuisEGonzalez Level 7 Commenter 13 months ago

I guess if you forget religion for a moment, this makes sense. In the wild females choose the most colorful, or the biggest or the one with the biggest nest so on and so forth. So it makes sense that if we accept the fact that we're descendants from apes(according to science)then there are certain aspects that guide how females accept mates.

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A.A. Zavala Hub Author 13 months ago

Luis, religion and belief could be additional variables in mate selection. I looked at the biological and evolutionary perspective of how we may choose mates. Thank you again for the visit.

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Lucky Cats Level 7 Commenter 11 months ago

AA..this is incredibly detailed and informative. I found your hub interesting and thought provoking while, at the same time, I wonder just how deeply we "need" to investigate our relationships, attractions, etc. In a world where we are (in my opinion) heavily influenced by the dissection of just about every aspect of our existence, causing our behaviors to be dictated by the information gleaned; I fear that our, otherwise, natural instincts and preferences will be, somehow, manipulated by such information. We are so busy trying to "figure it out" that we lose much in the process; in my humble opinion.

A noteworthy thesis, AA; one which is impressive to the maximum! An "A" effort in every aspect, of course!

Very thorough, extremely indepth and well written. I respect and regard your abilities highly!

I believe this hub to be reflective of reality and the truth of our innate, natural and instinctive mating behaviors but; geesth, I don't want to look at it this way. LOL By your poems; I don't think you do, either.

Much regards!

UP AWESOME USEFUL and there should be a "phew!"

Kathy

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A.A. Zavala Hub Author 11 months ago

Kathy, thank you for the kind words. I wrote this for evolutionary psychology class. Yes, we strive to understand the root causes of our behavior, and it is important. But, sometimes we lose out on opportunites to know others because we over think it. I know I have. It stems from our upbringing, and we are hampered because of it. I remember in middle and high school, when cute girls showed interest in me, I had absolutely no idea how to react. I was never raised in a loving or intimate enviroment, and as a result missed out. It wasn't until after I graduated from high school that I was ready to receive and accept attention. I think we should always be mindful of those who are interested in us, but be careful not to miss out on a potentially rewarding relationship.

I'm sure you aware, but our behaviors are similiar to animals. I know you run across dogs in your past, and I wish men were more mindful of this. But some women love these animals, reminds them of pets? If I must be a dog, I would like to be a beagle. I think they have winning personalities. As always, you honor me with your visit.

Augustine

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Lucky Cats Level 7 Commenter 11 months ago

I'm right there with you, my friend Augustine!

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A.A. Zavala Hub Author 11 months ago

I'm not sure what kind of cat I would be though. I can roar like a lion, and be lazy like a male one. Is there a domestic breed of cat men should strive to be like? Please share Kathy!

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kallini2010 Level 7 Commenter 11 months ago

Selection is a pain in ... Yes, we find certain people (males) more attractive than others and it varies from woman to woman, but it is only a fraction of the truth.

I ended up marrying "my mother" - the personality type. I did not find my ex particularly attractive - certain characteristics, yes, but some - were a terrible turn off.

I think the determining factor in selection is personality type - we are drawn to the familiar behaviour more than to familiar looks.

I wrote one hub - that explains nothing (it is shortest and makes the least sense), but read the first section where I quote a very interesting book - "a must read" for everyone to keeps repeating same mistakes over and over and over (applies to all of us).

http://hubpages.com/hub/Lifetraps-The-Irony-of-Rep

I have not got out my "vicious circle" - I get stuck with controlling men. Tall, short, attractive, ugly, thinner, fatter ... all of them are CC - caring & controlling.

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A.A. Zavala Hub Author 11 months ago

Kallini, selection is painful. It is interesting that you married someone that was similiar to your mother instead of father. These studies were broadbased studies, and the they focused on specific variables during their research. Some of the studies used ANOVA, and if they used factorial ANOVA, they could have measured these other variables.

Personality is key in longer term relationships. Sometimes the personality is the hook, where looks or resources are lacking. In evolutionary psychology, personality is difficult to measure mathematically, and is sometimes considered a "third variable problem"; a variable that would be considered misleading. Good looking men and women tend to find more success in passing genes, but may not find much success in terms of relationships that last long. The biggest variable determining offspring success is resources. The man with the most resources (money/wealth) is viewed by most women as the most viable. But as we're aware, that by no means guarantee happiness or relationship success. Of course, many people have different experiences, and many people say that money isn't a factor. But it would seem so.

It sounds like your selection method has garnered you a 50% success rate in the traits you seek (caring vs controlling). What you need now is an attractive, caring, attentive, good dancer, good lover, fairly intelligent, man. Once I find out what bait you need to catch him, I'll let you know. In the meantime, you may need to keep throwing them back.

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kallini2010 Level 7 Commenter 11 months ago

But don't forget about the other part of the selection process - I might find someone attractive and desirable, yet he does not reciprocate.

For the union to happen there must be the pull from both sides - that is where the catch is - he was controlling, I was submissive.

That is the story in my family - my mother is controlling, my father is submissive, I am submissive, Daniel is submissive - but for children it is difficult to exert too much control.

It is the norm - we marry either a mother, a father or a combination. In short we recreate our childhood relationships without any awareness that we do it.

I have to go looking - but I have to learn - learning is painful ... I know you had your share of a difficult relationship in your childhood.

If you find someone suitable for me - use UPS and send him to Canada.

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A.A. Zavala Hub Author 11 months ago

True, reciprocation is key. Without it, you just have a parasitic relationship. Those are never healthy. Kallini, it I find somebody worthy of sharing your time, he will find a way to Canada. I'm sure of it. I kind of have an idea what your looking for, and will start post haste. As always, thank you for the discussions. I feel smarter already!

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kallini2010 Level 7 Commenter 11 months ago

That's true - none of us will be the same after our communication. The simple rule of sociology - the effects of socialization.

It is true that we love certain characteristics - we all like tall men versus short men, we like muscular bodies versus fat or flabby, we like handsome men with thick wallets...

but to pair effectively - there must be something else - you always see that pairing is more or less equal - otherwise a couple sticks out as a sore thumb - difference in age, in race (not so much anymore), in looks, in intellect ... in other words - mes alliance. (it is a French word - I have no time to check it out if I spelled it correctly - Madame Universe is off to Tango & Cha Cha lesson - add it to the list of requirements - for my True Love).

You may put it as "birds of feather flock together".

So men with advantages will take their pick (the best), the next level (good, but not perfect) take their counterparts... and it goes to the lowest level...

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A.A. Zavala Hub Author 11 months ago

People do tend to date people that are like themselves, except me. I have never dated anyone like myself, all were different. Of course, there were attractive, intelligent enough, very patient of me and my . Most of the molder than me, I was emotionaly mature for my age. Or did they have a sense of humor?

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kallini2010 Level 7 Commenter 11 months ago

At least one characteristic stands out - to start defining a type - "most of them were older"

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A.A. Zavala Hub Author 11 months ago

OMG, did I actually say "molder"? I don't like mold or molder women. I date according to attraction. Unless they're super young (under 25), I would normally not object. But very few young women have the maturity and self esteem to be good partners. Control and trust issues, I was almost tagged like a fish by one.

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Charlotte B Plum Level 5 Commenter 11 months ago

Wow this is really really impressive! I think you wrote an extremely comprehensive hub that deserves to be part of a textbook.

This is indeed very well-written and well-researched. I have voted up!

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A.A. Zavala Hub Author 11 months ago

Charlotte, thanks! AS I understand, your in college and have many thoughts on the subject. Continue to submit and creating buzz. We all can't wait to read. Thank you so much for the visit.

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MartieCoetser Level 8 Commenter 8 months ago

I find studies like this really interesting. Although there will always be a fine line called ‘average’ or 'normal', the individual human being is so unique they normally fall in more than one category at the same time. What often amaze me, are the most attractive males paring with most unattractive females, and vice versa. I guess finding a reason for this could be an interesting study? Could it perhaps be inspired by narcissism, or maybe an over-developed urge to protect the less fortunate, or nature’s way to restore balance? So we can ponder :) I am glad I’ve discovered this interesting hub about Human female mate choice from an evolutionary perspective, A.A.Z. I enjoyed the read and paraded on your buttons.

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Alastar Packer Level 8 Commenter 8 months ago

Glad to see this one Augustine. Well done on the research and fascinating break-down. Have read that women do tend to marry men that resemble their fathers if the relationship was a good one or normal. The women comparing themselves to other women in the analysis was most interesting. The class was worth the effort teach, thanks. One thing more; wonder what the deciding factors are in women who fall for men who's faces they've never seen? Especially in the virtual age we're in now. Or even through letters like in the older times.

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A.A. Zavala Hub Author 8 months ago

Martie, your always expanding my mind and horizons. I have some anecdotal evidence regarding why attractive males pair with unattractive females. These instances were people I knew in college and the military, and these examples aren't meant to imply cause and effect.

I had two friends in the Army that were considered "studs." They had good looking women around, yet the women leaving their quarters at night weren't the same ones they flirted with. Physically they had nice bodies, but their faces were not. I found out that one of them had esteem issues, and felt more sexually comfortable with women that were not on his level of attractiveness. The other soldier was a deviant. He had a beautiful girlfriend, but she was not as sexually free as he was. She wanted traditional intimacy, "normal" sex (missionary position, no oral), and would not experiment. He dated another girl on the side that had no issues in performing or committing any thing sexually. It was understood that he was going to marry his girlfriend, but would keep something on the side. Again, these are only a couple of examples that weren't considered the norm.

When I get a chance, I will check and see if anyone had studied or performed any experiments regarding attractive/unattractive pairing. It's a question that begs and answer!

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A.A. Zavala Hub Author 8 months ago

Alastar, there are three psychology classes that you would find fascinating: evolutionary, abnormal, and social psychology.

Women who date men who look or act like their fathers is fairly common. Sometimes it's an attribute, behavior, even a scent that causes a trigger for attraction to be released. Sometimes the traits and memories are good, other times they aren't. But they are powerful enough for a woman to pair up with someone.

I've always wondered how women from other cultures could leave their country and marry someone they've never met. And how attraction and coupling occurs online has been studied. I will see if I can find the research and results. I think people are lonely, and when they find a kindred spirit it releases the same chemical reaction in the body that romance and love makes. It's the chemicals between us; the band "Bush" was right!

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Derdriu Level 8 Commenter 3 months ago

AA Zavala, What an innovative, provocative, unique summary of what prompts women to choose the men that they do when it comes to children and family life! It's particularly interesting that your research indicates that women focus on the face (and the eyes as the window to the soul, the mirror of the personality?). As usual in regard to analyzing research, you do a great job of identifying and describing the choices which are made all along the way, from "love at first sight" (;-]) to "forever after" (;-D).

Thank you for sharing, voted up + all,

Derdriu

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A.A. Zavala Hub Author 2 months ago

Dedriu, it was interesting. There were many interesting theories and examples covered in the class. I really need to find the time to share, becuase some were truly bizarre. Yes, eyes are windows into the soul, and are a universal point of communication, even among animals. As always, thank you so much for the visit.

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